April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month: Being Loud Enough to Change the Narrative

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April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month—a time to raise awareness, support survivors, and challenge the systems that too often fail them.

At CNADA, this month feels especially meaningful. Our team just returned from the End Violence Against Women International conference, where we learned alongside professionals from across the country about best practices in response, investigation, and survivor support. While there, we also watched the powerful documentary Loud Enough, Surviving Justice—a film that follows survivors as they navigate the criminal justice system and exposes the gaps, challenges, and barriers they often face when seeking accountability.

The film highlights something we see every day in our work:
survivors are often not failed by one moment—but by a system that was not built to fully support them.

It left us asking an important question:

Are we, as communities, loud enough when it comes to supporting survivors?

Understanding Consent: The Foundation of Everything

Consent is not complicated—but it is often misunderstood.

One of the simplest ways to understand consent comes from the well-known video Consent is Tea. (LINK TO WATCH: https://youtu.be/pZwvrxVavnQ)

It explains consent like offering someone a cup of tea:

• If they say yes, you can give them tea

• If they say no, you don’t give them tea

• If they change their mind, you stop

• If they’re unconscious, you don’t give them tea

Consent is:

• Clear

• Freely given

• Ongoing

• Reversible

Silence is not consent.
Fear is not consent.
Coercion is not consent.

If someone is intoxicated, unconscious, pressured, or afraid—they cannot legally or ethically give consent.

When we talk about sexual assault, we are talking about any sexual act that occurs without consent.

When Consent Changes: It Can Start Consensual and Still Become Assault

Something can begin consensual—and still become assault.

Consent must be ongoing. It can be withdrawn at any time.

If a situation escalates into:

• Hitting or physical violence

• Strangulation or choking

• Threats or intimidation

…it is no longer consensual.

Even without saying “stop,” fear and harm remove consent.

What About When Someone Is Too Afraid to Say No?

This is where trauma responses come in.

Understanding Trauma Responses: Why Survivors React the Way They Do

Trauma responses are survival—not choice.

Fight – resisting
Flight – trying to escape
Freeze – unable to move or speak
Fawn – going along to stay safe

Many survivors freeze or comply.

That is not consent.

Why This Matters

From the outside, it can be misunderstood.

But:

• Silence ≠ consent

• Compliance ≠ consent

• Lack of resistance ≠ consent

What Montana Law Recognizes

Montana law recognizes that fear and force remove consent.

Even if something started consensual, once fear or violence is introduced, it may meet the definition of sexual assault.

What Montana Law Says About Sexual Assault

Under Montana law:

• Sexual Assault (§45-5-502): sexual contact without consent

• Rape (§45-5-503): sexual intercourse without consent

• Without Consent (§45-5-501) includes:

  • Force or threat

  • Intoxication or impairment

  • Unconsciousness

  • Coercion

Lack of resistance does NOT equal consent.

Note: This information is for educational purposes only and is not legal advice. If you have questions about your specific situation, we encourage you to speak with an attorney or an advocate.

What This Means in Real Life

If someone is afraid, being hurt, pressured, or unable to respond—consent is not present.

Even if something started consensual, it could become sexual assault the moment safety, choice, or control is taken away.

Sexual Assault in Montana: What the Data Tells Us

Sexual violence is happening right here in Montana.

According to the Montana Department of Justice and the Montana Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence:

• Montana ranks among the highest in the nation for sexual violence

• Approximately 1,000–1,500 sexual offenses are reported each year

• Many more incidents go unreported

But reporting is only part of the story.

Reports vs. Prosecution: What Happens After a Report

Even when survivors report, not every case moves forward in the justice system.

National data—reflected in trends seen across Montana—shows:

• Out of every 1,000 sexual assaults, about 310 are reported to police

• Around 50 lead to arrest

• Approximately 28 lead to felony conviction

• And about 25 result in incarceration

This means the majority of cases never result in prosecution or conviction.

This graphic titled “This Is Happening Here: What Happens After a Report” illustrates the progression of sexual assault cases through the justice system.

It uses a funnel design with five horizontal bars that gradually narrow from top to bottom.

At the top, the widest bar reads “1,000 assaults occur.”
Below it, a slightly smaller bar reads “310 reported.”
The next bar reads “50 arrests.”
Below that, “28 convictions.”
At the bottom, the smallest bar reads “25 incarcerations.”

The narrowing shape visually represents how the number of cases decreases at each stage of the justice process.

At the bottom of the graphic, the text reads: “Most survivors never see justice. Support matters.”
The color scheme transitions from deep purple at the top to teal at the bottom.

What This Means for Survivors

For many survivors, the justice system can feel uncertain and overwhelming.

As highlighted in Loud Enough, Surviving Justice, survivors often face:

• High burdens of proof

• Delays and system gaps

• Fear of not being believed

• Trauma responses being misunderstood

Rural Montana: Unique Risks and Barriers

Sexual violence in rural communities comes with challenges that often go unseen—and deeply impact whether survivors are able to seek help, receive care, or pursue justice.

In eastern Montana and across the seven counties CNADA serves, survivors are not only navigating trauma—they are navigating distance, isolation, and limited resources.

Geographic Isolation

In rural Montana, help is often far away.

Survivors may need to travel:

• Hours to reach a hospital with SANE services

• Long distances to meet with law enforcement or attend court hearings

• Across multiple counties just to access basic support

Transportation can become a barrier in itself—especially when someone does not have a reliable vehicle, gas money, or a safe way to leave.

Limited Access to Services

Many rural communities do not have:

• Local advocacy organizations

• 24/7 medical care with trained SANE nurses

• Mental health providers specializing in trauma

This means survivors may face delays in:

• Medical exams

• Evidence collection

• Ongoing counseling and support

In some cases, survivors must choose between seeking care far from home or not seeking care at all.

Confidentiality Concerns in Small Communities

In small towns, privacy can feel impossible.

Survivors may worry:

• “What if someone I know works at the hospital?”

• “What if my report gets back to my family or community?”

• “What if everyone finds out?”

When everyone knows everyone, seeking help can feel like risking exposure.

Knowing the Perpetrator

In rural areas, survivors are more likely to know the person who harmed them.

This can include:

• A partner or ex-partner

• A coworker

• A neighbor

• Someone connected through family or community

This adds layers of:

• Fear

• Complication

• Pressure not to report

Especially when the person may still be part of daily life.

Fear of Not Being Believed or Supported

In close-knit communities, there can be strong social ties—and sometimes strong biases.

Survivors may fear:

• Not being believed

• Being blamed or questioned

• Facing backlash from the perpetrator’s family or social circle

This fear can prevent survivors from coming forward at all.

Economic and Housing Barriers

Leaving a harmful situation in a rural area is not always simple.

Survivors may face:

• Limited housing options

• Financial dependence

• Few available jobs

• Long waitlists for assistance

Sometimes, staying feels like the only option.

System Gaps and Capacity Issues

Even when survivors reach out for help, systems can be stretched thin.

We are increasingly seeing:

• Survivors in larger Montana cities being turned away from shelter due to capacity limits

• Individuals reaching out across counties for services

• Delays in response due to limited staffing and resources

In rural regions, there is often no backup agency—no overflow system—no second option.

Why This Matters

These barriers don’t just make things harder—they shape outcomes.

They affect:

• Whether someone reports

• Whether evidence is collected

• Whether a case moves forward

• Whether a survivor feels supported or alone

What CNADA Does

At CNADA, we work to bridge these gaps every day.

We:

• Travel hundreds of miles to meet survivors where they are

• Provide hospital and court accompaniment

• Help coordinate transportation, housing, and basic needs

• Offer support whether or not someone chooses to report

Because in rural Montana, access to support should not depend on your zip code.

In communities like ours, being “loud enough” means making sure no survivor has to navigate these barriers alone.

Why These Numbers Matter

These aren’t just statistics.

They are people in our communities.

This is happening here.

During Sexual Assault Awareness Month, we don’t just share numbers—we share truth. And the truth is, this is happening here—and the response must start here too.

Why Medical Care Matters: SANE Exams

After a sexual assault, survivors may choose to seek medical care. One option is a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) exam—a specialized exam designed to provide both medical care and, if the survivor chooses evidence collection.

It’s important to know:

You are in control of what happens during the exam.

What Happens During a SANE Exam?

A SANE exam is conducted by a nurse specially trained in trauma-informed care. The process is paced around the survivor’s comfort and consent.

The exam may include:

• A conversation about what happened (only what the survivor wants to share)
  This helps guide what care or evidence collection may be needed

• A physical exam
  To check for injuries and ensure overall health

• Evidence collection
  This can include swabs, documentation of injuries, and clothing collection—but only with the survivor’s permission

• Photographs of injuries (optional and with consent)

• Testing and prevention care, such as:

  • STI testing and prevention medication

  • Pregnancy prevention options

  • Treatment for any injuries

What Survivors Should Know

• You can say yes or no to any part of the exam

• You can stop the exam at any time

• You can bring an advocate or support person with you

• You can receive an exam without immediately reporting to law enforcement

The goal is not just evidence—it’s care, safety, and support.

Timing Matters—but Options Still Exist

Ideally, a SANE exam is completed within a certain timeframe (often within 72–120 hours depending on the situation), but:

Even if time has passed, medical care is still important and available.

Working with Law Enforcement

Reporting sexual assault is a deeply personal decision—and one that looks different for every survivor.

At CNADA, we support survivors whether they choose to report or not. There is no “right” choice—only what feels safest and most appropriate for that individual.

At the same time, understanding how the system works can help explain why law enforcement involvement plays a critical role when it comes to filing charges and moving a case forward.

How a Case Moves Forward

For a criminal case to be charged, it typically follows a process:

1. A report is made to law enforcement

2. An investigation is conducted

3. Evidence is gathered and documented

4. The case is reviewed by a prosecutor

5. A decision is made about whether charges can be filed

Without a report, there is usually no formal investigation, which makes it difficult for a case to move into the criminal justice system.

Why Law Enforcement Involvement Matters

Law enforcement plays a key role in building a case that can be reviewed for prosecution.

This can include:

• Collecting statements

• Documenting injuries and evidence

• Interviewing witnesses

• Gathering digital or physical evidence

• Coordinating with medical providers and SANE nurses

This documentation helps establish:

• What happened

• Whether a crime occurred under Montana law

• Whether there is enough evidence to meet the legal standard for charges

The Reality: Charging a Case Can Be Complex

Even when a report is made, not every case results in charges.

This can be due to:

• Limited or delayed evidence

• Lack of witnesses

• Trauma responses being misunderstood

• High legal standards (such as “beyond a reasonable doubt”)

This does not mean the assault didn’t happen—it means the system requires a specific level of proof to move forward.

Why Early Support Can Make a Difference

When survivors have support early on, it can help strengthen both their experience and, if they choose, their case.

This might include:

• Receiving a SANE exam

• Speaking with an advocate before or during reporting

• Understanding what to expect from the process

• Having someone present during interviews

Early support can help:

• Preserve evidence

• Reduce retraumatization

• Improve communication with law enforcement

• Increase the likelihood that a case is thoroughly documented

The Role of Advocacy

At CNADA, we help bridge the gap between survivors and systems.

We can:

• Be present during law enforcement interviews

• Help survivors understand their rights and options

• Advocate for trauma-informed responses

• Support survivors through each step of the process

Our role is not to pressure—but to empower survivors with information and support.

Balancing Truth and Choice

It’s important to hold both truths at the same time:

• Law enforcement involvement is often necessary for charges to be filed

• Survivors should never feel forced to report in order to receive support

Both can be true.

The Bottom Line

Reporting can open the door to accountability—but support should never depend on it.

Every survivor deserves:

• To be believed

• To be supported

• To have choices

And when survivors do choose to engage with the system, they deserve to be met with respect, understanding, and trauma-informed care.

Being “loud enough” also means building systems that survivors can trust—so when they choose to come forward, they are supported every step of the way.

What We Saw in Loud Enough, Surviving Justice

While attending training with the End Violence Against Women International, we watched the documentary Loud Enough, Surviving Justice—and it’s something that stays with you.

The film follows survivors as they move through the criminal justice system, showing not just what happened to them—but what happens after they report.

It reveals a reality that many people don’t see:

The hardest part is often not just the assault—but navigating what comes next.

What the Documentary Shows

The documentary highlights how survivors can encounter barriers at every stage of the process:

• Being questioned in ways that don’t account for trauma

• Having their reactions misunderstood

• Facing delays, gaps, or breakdowns in the system

• Carrying the burden of proof in deeply personal and painful ways

It shows how trauma responses—like freezing or delayed reporting—are often misinterpreted, even though they are well-documented and common.

You can learn more about Loud Enough, Surviving Justice and watch the documentary here:
👉 https://www.loudenoughfilm.com

A System Not Always Built for Survivors

One of the most powerful takeaways from Loud Enough is this:

Our systems were not originally built with trauma in mind.

That can lead to:

• Survivors feeling dismissed or doubted

• Cases not moving forward

• Individuals choosing not to report at all

Not because what happened wasn’t real—but because the process can feel overwhelming, confusing, or even re-traumatizing.

Why This Matters in Rural Montana

While the documentary shares stories from across the country, the themes are deeply familiar in rural communities like ours.

When resources are limited and systems are stretched:

• Delays can be longer

• Access to trained professionals can be harder

• Survivors may feel even more isolated

This makes trauma-informed responses even more critical.

What Gives Us Hope

The documentary doesn’t just show what’s broken—it shows what’s possible.

When survivors are:

• Believed

• Supported

• Met with trauma-informed care

…the experience can be different.

Outcomes can change.
Healing can begin.
Justice can feel more accessible.

How This Connects to Our Work

At CNADA, this is why our work matters.

We don’t just respond to crisis—we help navigate systems that can feel overwhelming.

We:

• Stand beside survivors during interviews and court

• Help explain what’s happening and what to expect

• Advocate for trauma-informed approaches

• Ensure survivors don’t have to go through the process alone

Because being “loud enough” isn’t just about awareness—it’s about changing how systems respond.

Being loud enough means more than speaking out—it means building systems that listen, understand, and respond in a way that truly supports survivors.

If You Need Support

You don’t have to go through this alone.

📞 24/7 Crisis Line (call or text): 406-951-0475
📞 Office:406-234-0542
🌐 www.cnada.org

We are here to listen, support, and walk alongside you—every step of the way.

Your Power. Our Purpose.